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Topic · Complexity and communication
In a company, governance runs almost entirely through communication: goals, decisions, feedback, reports. If you understand communication not as a transmission between two heads but as a system of its own with its own patterns, you see why clear instructions don't create clarity and why meetings go around in circles.
Schedule an initial conversationIn many companies, communication is seen as transmission: Someone says something, someone else receives it, and if something goes wrong, one of the two wasn't paying attention. The idea is convenient but explains little. It doesn't explain why the same instruction is implemented in completely different ways in two departments, why a meeting full of smart people ends without a result, or why a team “agrees” for months and still nothing happens.
The approach discussed here starts from a different place. It views communication as a system of its own that runs according to its own patterns and perpetuates itself. It goes back to the systems theory of the sociologist Niklas Luhmann and was developed further by Gitta Peyn in her FORMwelt approach. If you understand how communication systems behave, you understand a large part of what actually happens in a company.
Luhmann describes communication as a unity of three selections: information, utterance, understanding. Communication only takes place when all three come together. Peyn shifts the emphasis and speaks of meaning, conveying, understanding.
Meaning
Meaning is generated: What matters to me, what do I think, what do I want to express?
Conveying
Signs are set, behavior is shown: spoken, written, through body language or action.
Understanding
A behavior is interpreted as a message: What is probably meant here?
What matters is that the three elements do not form a sequence but interact recursively. Every act of understanding becomes the occasion for new meaning, every message is understood or misunderstood and produces the next. The system itself decides how it informs itself. This applies to a conversation, a department, a company, and, according to Peyn, also to the individual psyche, which relates thoughts to thoughts.
According to Peyn, this form of reaching understanding is old in evolutionary terms. It emerged from a signal language tied to emotions and follows patterns of shared rhythm. That is why body language is so important, less as “expression” than through what someone does next.
Anyone who means, conveys, or understands something makes distinctions: important or unimportant, urgent or not, problem or opportunity. The frame of reference for distinction (Referenzrahmen der Unterscheidung, RdU) is the frame in which a person or a system makes these distinctions. It is the basis for what someone takes to be real, and thus for communication in the first place.
Two departments that talk “about the same thing” can therefore be working with different frames. Each side understands correctly within its frame and still understands something different:
Sales
distinguishes by likelihood of closing
Production
distinguishes by feasibility
Accounting
distinguishes by liquidity
The epistemological basis is called real constructivism: Reality is constructed, but not arbitrarily. It depends on feedback, rules, and frames of reference, and it has givens that cannot be interpreted away. For companies, this stance is practical: Different viewpoints are taken seriously, but they have to measure up against feedback from reality.
FORMwelt is the toolbox for this: a formal language for thinking and communication that works with precise definitions and aims to avoid misunderstandings that rest only on different meanings of words. Its representations of patterns of distinction and conversational dynamics are called FoRMlines.
| Level | Building blocks |
|---|---|
| Foundation | Real constructivism as the basis, RdU as the lens |
| Method | FORMwelt as the language, c2m as the model of meaning-making, FoRMlines as the representation |
| Application | Complexity management, organizational development, compatible with Stafford Beer's Syntegration for large group conversations |
The approach doesn't provide a conversation technique but an ability to observe. It helps with questions that come up in leadership all the time:
Why doesn't a clear instruction create clarity?
Why does a meeting go around in circles even though everyone “wants the same thing”?
Why does agreement count as a decision even though no one has really decided?
How can you tell whether a conversation produces something new or only repeats what is known?
The benefit lies in recognizing communication patterns as properties of the system rather than as character flaws of individuals. Then they can be changed in a targeted way: through meeting formats, feedback loops, decision paths, and the way leadership sets its impulses.
The core ability: being able to say what you mean and to mean what you say.
There is a shorthand for the three elements: M stands for meaning, ! for conveying, V for understanding (from the German Verstehen). The order shows where a conversational move starts and what it relies on. M!V means: Someone means something, conveys it, and it is understood. The other five orders shift the emphasis. This results in six emphasis patterns.
The patterns describe how a conversational move is built, not who someone is. In a single meeting, the same person often shows several of them. None is better than another.
!VM
Initiating and integrating
Follows impulses, asks questions, brings things together, likes to work with visible task lists such as a Kanban board.
Contribution Decisions and next steps
!MV
Directive
Lays things down, believes it knows, in the extreme to the point of dogma.
Contribution Orientation, always sets a rhythm
M!V
Offering
Offers something, as happens in consulting or training.
Contribution Conscious perception, clear focus
MV!
Exploring and inquiring
Asks “What is it like?” and really wants to know.
Contribution Reflection, clarifying one's own position
VM!
Checking back
Asks “Did I understand correctly?” and expects a message to orient itself by.
Contribution Securing assignments
V!M
Affirming silence
Agrees without conveying anything of its own.
Contribution Quick confirmation, consensus
A few connections sharpen the picture:
A central idea of the approach is: What matters is what happens next. Whether a message was good shows in what connects to it. Four continuations are possible:
A message
Conflict
The messages collide.
Monotony
The system repeats itself.
Rhythm
The system finds a shared beat.
Co-creation
Ideas are taken up, the system observes itself communicating.
Monotony arises when a system relies mainly on meaning and understanding and neglects conveying. Everyone knows what is meant, everyone understands, but nothing new comes into circulation anymore. In a company, this shows up as a meeting that has run the same way for years, as a report no one reads anymore, or as a consensus that is never tested.
Rhythm, on the other hand, is not bad. Recurring patterns provide a beat and reliability. The question is whether a rhythm carries something new or only produces repetition.
A co-creative sense-making system always expects an M!V: that someone means something, actually conveys it, and that it is understood. That sounds obvious but is demanding, because all three elements have to be served at the same time:
If conveying is missing,
monotony looms.
If understanding is missing,
noise results.
If meaning is missing,
things are only administered.
When a communication system is stuck, it rarely helps to get louder within the pattern. More helpful is an intervention at the level at which the system talks about itself, a meta-intervention. Its guiding question:
What does the system take as an M!V? What counts here as a genuine message, one that is meant and understood?
This question is easier to formulate than to ask:
The system absorbs it
The question has to be pushed through from the level of meta-communication. Otherwise the system absorbs the disruption and returns to its usual monotony.
It is dismissed as opinion
An intervention can be taken as mere opinion (“there he goes again”) instead of being understood as a message.
It hardly works alone
It needs backing: position and decision-making authority, a sufficient number of people involved, or recognized authority.
The last point directly concerns executive management. It usually has exactly these levers and can back meta-interventions that would otherwise fizzle out.
A meeting can be observed for which patterns dominate. A meeting in which mainly impulses are set and tasks handed out creates a lot of activity, but not necessarily shared understanding. A meeting in which people only nod seems harmonious but may not be making tested decisions. A meeting in which no one conveys anything new anymore has tipped into monotony. A simple touchstone:
What happened next after this meeting?
An instruction is a directive conversational move. Often that is exactly right: It provides orientation and rhythm. It becomes difficult when understanding is simply assumed. Then isolated solutions emerge, because each unit implements the instruction within its own frame of reference. It helps to deliberately make room for checking back after an instruction and to disclose the frame in which it is meant.
Follow-up questions are not a sign of weakness but a pattern of their own with a contribution of their own. The question that checks back (“Did I understand correctly?”) secures assignments; the exploring one (“What is it like?”) opens up a topic. Organizations in which follow-up questions are seen as a disruption lose both and pay with rework.
A simple question a leader can ask. It works in two very different ways, depending on how it is asked:
| Asked honestly | Asked rhetorically | |
|---|---|---|
| Stance | Genuine interest in the answer | The answer is already settled. |
| What it is | An invitation to examine things together | A directive move in the form of a question |
| Possible consequence | Can set off a co-creative sense-making system | Confirms the existing pattern |
The team notices the difference in what connects to it: in what happens after the answer.
The emphasis patterns are related to the question of how complexly a team is currently handling a topic (see Complexity management). If a team jumps between many topics without setting anchor points, checking-back and affirming patterns lead to actionism, control, and silo creativity, while directive and initiating patterns lead to shifting attempts at regulation without mutual understanding. Exploring and offering patterns, by contrast, show up where someone mediates out of a conflict.
A second bridge leads to Stafford Beer's Viable System Model (VSM):
Viable System Model
How must an organization be built to remain viable? The capacity to steer arises from information processing, communication, and feedback, with dedicated functions for coordination and for checking whether reports show actual performance.
Communication systems
What is actually said, understood, and connected to within this structure? The best structure is of little use if communication within it has become monotonous.
If you want to shape communication deliberately, you need different perspectives. Three levels can be distinguished, each with what is necessary and what is sufficient:
| Level | Necessary | Sufficient |
|---|---|---|
| Everyday communication | Someone you convey something to | Being able to look at yourself and the conversation from the outside |
| Reflection and analysis | Observing your own behavior, its effect, and its patterns | Recognizing how you yourself generate meaning, that is, interpreting your own interpretation |
| Shaping the communication system | Recognizing communication as a field, not just as an exchange | Recognizing communication spaces as constructs and working with paradoxes, emerging meaning, and not-knowing |
For executive management, the third level matters most. It is responsible for the company's communication spaces: which meetings exist, who may convey what and when, how understanding is checked, and what happens next after a decision.
Communication is a range of forms. If you recognize the forms, you can change them. If you don't, you repeat them.
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Complexity management with c2m: telling complicated from complex, differentiation and dimensioning, the levels K0 to K5, nine misconceptions, and how it differs from Cynefin, MHC, and VSM.
Structure and governance
The Viable System Model (VSM) by Stafford Beer: five systems, variety, recursion, communication channels, typical patterns, and a quick check for your own organization.
Collaboration and change
Making sense of conflicts in organizations: types of conflict, intentions and motives, Glasl's nine stages of conflict escalation, and Berkel's conflict diagnosis, with practical cases and limits.

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